Men Don’t Live Up Under Women
Do you go to work AND/OR school everyday, while your man male partner sits at home, doing NOTHING? By nothing, I mean NOT-A-DAMN-THING-THAT-BRINGS-MONEY-INTO-YOUR-HOUSEHOLD. If so, you’re stupid. Yes, I said it and I really don’t care if your little feelings are hurt. MEN WORK. I don’t care if it’s standing outside of Little Caesars with that big ass “Hot-N-Ready” sign that nobody pays attention to or selling all the little wanna be-kush he can push at the gas station…MEN WORK. Being enrolled in school is no excuse either…MEN WORK. If you live there, you contribute there. Half should be the standard, but if not half, SOMETHING. Taking out the trash, changing a light bulb, and doing an oil change doesn’t count either; MEN WORK. With this entry, I will be addressing both males and females with my views on the 50/50 rule.
Fellas…you and I both know the only reason you’re with this girl is because she’s dumb enough to let you mooch off of her. You’re more expensive to her than her child is. There is nothing glamorous about having to put up with a woman because you know if she gets tired of your shit…you’re HOMELESS. You’re not pimping, you’re pathetic. If you’re without a job, that’s cool, we all don’t like to punch clocks. But where’s your hustle? ambition? drive for success? You shouldn’t be driving your woman’s car unless yours is in the shop or you’re stacking bread to get your own. And if you are pushing her shit…put some gas in it, change the oil, keep it clean…shit, contribute on a car note. But nah, I forgot, you can’t because you’re “pimping” her. If you had your own, you wouldn’t have to settle for the bitches that you wouldn’t look at twice if you had your shit together.
Furthermore, you’re NOT pimping her. Any male can get a woman who will fall in love with him and subsequently, pretty much do whatever he wants. Male strippers do it all the time. They find the fattest, ugliest, women who come to the strip club and fuck them in exchange for mortgage payments. The difference is the male stripper actually has his own income, everything else is a bonus. MEN WORK.
I’ve been broke and it ain’t shit fun about it. There should be something in every man, no matter how many hoes you have, that makes you just a little proud to be able to take your lady out sometimes. For you to say, baby, I got it. For you to drive your own car, with your own gas, and pay for everything you and her do that night because shit, she deserves it. It’s not tricking, it’s showing your appreciation to a woman who is good to you even when you’re not good to yourself, let alone her. It’s not about being a rich nigga, it’s about a good man to a good woman, if she deserves it.
Now we all know that some of us are $15 p/h dudes dating $80,000 a year women, and obviously, you’re not on her level financially. I’ve been that dude and I’d have no problem with my future life partner making more money than I. Still, men don’t live up under women. If the rent is $900, it’s $900. It doesn’t matter that she has a whole bunch left over, you pay your half and feel good about it. That way, when she gets to talking stupid, you can say, “bitch, this is just as much as mine, as it is yours.” She might not like you then, but she’ll remember, you’re doing what you can and she’ll respect it. She can’t just kick you out on the whim because you’re not doing shit but making her cum once a month. Men bring cash to the table.
Ladies...stupid ass ladies. You have the power; You have the pussy. Do you see what these niggas are doing to each other out here over pussy? Over the material things that can hopefully make getting pussy easier for them? You work your ass off everyday, to let some nigga run through you, eat your food, and run up your utilities, just because you and your friends swear he’s the sexiest thing in the world? Stupid ass women.
Some of you have children at home. Your “man” is there when they wake up and go to school. Your “man” is there when they get home from school. Why does everyone in your house get up and do something other than him? What kind of example is that for children to see? When you want to take your kids to the park, you can’t, because he has your car, probably visiting another bitch that he’s not even getting money from. She doesn’t have to put up with his broke shit, but you do. You’re the woman telling all his side line hoes that he’s “your man.” That he comes home to you every night. Yea, that’s because you’re the only woman dumb enough to let him stay in your house without giving you a dime. Not a dime. No grocery money, no rent money, no cable money. He doesn’t go to class, he doesn’t hustle, he doesn’t do SHIT…but shit…and he doesn’t even buy toilet paper. There’s a difference between a down ass bitch and a dumb ass bitch; you’re the latter.
If your dude is laid off, that’s no excuse. MEN WORK. Break off some of that unemployment check. They must contribute to the financial security of the household. People go through hard times, but if your man has been having a hard time since the day he met you and that shit still hasn’t gotten any easier for him, then he’s about to start making you have some hard times too. Now you’re stuck. Credit fucked. Money fucked. All because you took on dead weight, just because he fucks you great. STUPID ASS WOMEN.
Committed relationships are a partnership. She pays, He pays, YALL PAY. I have, you don’t, I help you…and vice versa. You help your partner through therapy; when they fell down and need time to start running again. Grown ass men shouldn’t still be learning to walk, they should be sprinting, learning how to run marathons.
This is dedicated to Mellissa’s friend, who has a dude, who is not only not contributing, but is making a little money and still not giving her anything. STUPID ASS WOMEN.
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23 Comments
9/7/2010
I’m bout to tell my friends… If i ever end up being like that (that i wont), they have permission to beat me SENSELESS! Lol
Real talk. Good blog.
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9/7/2010
you’re preaching to the choir ! i just had an disagreement w| a dude the other over him tryna tell me he’s a ” smart nigga” & i kindly reminded him a “smart nigga” has some kinda hustle to put money in his pocket . but yeah you’d be surprised by all the BS some women put up w| bekuhs he pipes he down well . AND another thing when a woman doesn’t work and lives off a guy she’s called a gold digger but when a male does it ppl call it pimpin . smdh
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September 7th, 2010 at 4:12 pm
Nah, I don’t call women a gold digger, because that’s been a man’s role for hundreds of years. If I made a million a year, my wife wouldn’t have to work, but she probably would be, just because…who gets into a relationship with someone who isn’t doing anything off rip? I mean if I’m REALLY getting money, let’s say 100k and up, I want a woman who is on her way, or already doing the same thing. I don’t want kids, so what would she be doing all day?
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September 8th, 2010 at 2:21 pm
her ass better be in the gym keeping that body tight. hair done, nails done , everything did!
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9/7/2010
I’ve never been one to date for status or savings account balances. I’ve dated everything from city councilmen to hustlers….six figure accountants to dudes working at Footlocker and there is nothing different about these men (aside from their tax brackets) BUT…they work their asses off. If you’re pushing white out the trap house of sneakers out of Northland….YOU WILL WORK. I work. Two jobs usually…I just like money. I want you to like money too. If I’m on a debit card diet and I spent my cash…I need you to be able to get my Red Bull. But men with no expendable income aren’t hardly shelling out $3 for energy drinks…and damnit I NEED my Red Bull. Everything else is a given. Glad a man is up on game.
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September 7th, 2010 at 4:56 pm
You’ve dated a lot of men. I’m starting to rethink our relationship, lol.
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9/7/2010
Nothing but the TRUTH!
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9/7/2010
I date a lot…I suppose in today’s social climate I must stress DATING doesn’t equal FUCKING. In fact the two are often quite unrelated.
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September 7th, 2010 at 6:50 pm
Say that again so somebody can say “Amen”…
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September 8th, 2010 at 6:09 am
I wish there was a like buttion = /
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9/7/2010
You ain’t never lied! GOOD POST! Let these women know… There’s nothin’ bangin’ bout a sexy man who cannot do for you! And if he’s laidoff and can’t get a hustle and/or he better start sellin his PS3/flat screen or even his favorite shoes he NEVER WORN (I still don’t get this) because RENT IS DUE! And no bomb orgasm is worth the nonsense! Me and my man speak that 50/50 language and sometimes it’s 60/40 when I want to be a brat but it doesn’t matter because that’s how we get down. Men WORk and women DONT LET THESE FOOLS WALK OVER YOU! But ladies don’t when your man is down dont forget to build him up because when they fall… and hit rock bottom… They take it harder than women. MUCH HARDER.
Tis is All.
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September 8th, 2010 at 4:27 am
word life. I know…I had to do it before. Money came in, but I didn’t budget it right, so I had to part ways with guns and toys. It is what it is. Make it back, cop more shit.
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9/7/2010
Excellent post. I have an associate whose in this same situation. She was a friend, but I got tired of her borrowing money to give her dude and complaining to me about his foolishness, physical abuse, ect but wouldn’t leave him alone. Smh. I hope this post gets as many reads as your sex-riddled ones, and opens somes eyes to the duties/actions of a REAL man.
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September 7th, 2010 at 8:20 pm
U should somehow send this story to her…. w/o her knowing it you
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9/7/2010
My friends & I were just having a round table discussion about this, the role reversals & all of what you stated, where are the real me, & what ever happened to taking the initiative? aren’t men problem solves?
Anyways now i’m rambling but THANK YOU ssssooo much!!!!! Now i don’t feel like i’m crazy for having those beliefs & at least i know that all hope isn’t lost for the male species.
I just wish more men had some dam ambition!!! (sorry excuse the jamaican in me)
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9/8/2010
Chuuuuuuurrch!!!
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9/8/2010
Oh undresser, this blog couldn’t have come at a more convenient time. My brother was just telling me about a college friend of his who is in the same self-inflicted predicament. We concluded that 95% of the time these situations have more to do with low self esteem than with romance. Love is not THAT blind; hell if it was, we’d all be on disability. The saddest thing you’ll find is a woman with big pockets and a small ego. Smh.
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9/8/2010
Good Ass Job! These dumb ass men and dumb ass women need to grow up.
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9/9/2010
BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your best post EVER!!! I can not stand a bum a** n*gga!! I work 2 jobs and there’s guys who don’t even wanna clock in to 1 PART TIME JOB! Wake up, ladies!! UH may have hurt ur feelings, but you know its true. No d*ck is worth taking care of a grown a** man!!
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9/9/2010
I luv it!….I have experience this before till I realize that I was being use, so I kick his bumy ass to the curve..well done!
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9/11/2010
I need to email this to alot of bitches. The part you said about them using chicks cars really hit home and I’ll NEVER let nigga drive my car again. If he can’t pull up next to me then he might as well not say shit to me!
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9/14/2010
Women put up with the dumbest shit. Myself included. It’s funny because if you were to show these aint shit negroes this post, they would swear this isn’t about them or you. Whatever. Get rid of those losers and keep it moving. I kicked a dude out right when he got a job. It was too late then, I can obviously make do without him.
Alot of bitch ass ain’t shit negroes need to see this. Where do they learn that lazy ass play Madden all day shit?
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9/30/2010
so true.
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