No More Honey (Bumble Bee Is No More)
She was one of the freakiest women I had ever met, definitely in the top 5 with ass to waist ratio, and she was the only woman that had a child that I ever acknowledged as my “main.” Two weeks ago she was ready to be in a committed relationship with me. Yesterday morning, she let another man invade her beehive and buy her “coney island afterwards.” Whatever a man’s version of female intuition is, I had that, and turned out, I was right. So now what…
I haven’t slept with her in two weeks, which was highly out of the ordinary. I barely spoke to her and haven’t seen that much of her considering she was the woman I spent the most time with for the last 2 or so months. This is the same woman who said she loved me, possibly in love with me.
A while back and I came over her house and went upstairs to the room she claimed she “never used,” only to find a condom wrapper, empty, that wasn’t mine. She claimed up and down that she didn’t do anything. I let it go because after all, she’s not mines. Of course I think she was lying, but why?
Fast forward to yesterday. We were supposed to attend my cousins wedding together next weekend, but since we haven’t been talking, I wanted to check on the status. Her text messages were dry: “I didnt plan anything in place of it but i also didnt assume u still wanted me to…i figured ud let me know if u still wanted me to go or not beforehand.” For some reason, my brain started to connect the dots and told me call her. Her voice was…like it was after we’d had sex countless times before. Something said, ‘this bitch is fucking another nigga.’ I’m not one to really hold on to stuff, so I just flat out asked…
Me: have you slept with anyone since I’ve slept with you? and by slept, i do mean any sexual activity?
BB: Since day one up until yesterday…u were the only one i had been with
Me: until yesterday. wow
BB: Yes…until yesterday…i was with someone this morning.
My heart dropped. How the fuck did this girl let a nigga run through her, all the while declaring so called feelings for me? Lol. Did I think the pussy was mine? Nah. It wasn’t her lying whispers of “this pussy is yours. Just yours. Cum in your home,” it was the frank, non-horny conversations in which she said she simply wasn’t fucking anyone else. I’m hardly the dude to lie to, you can read about some of what I do on a weekly basis. Why?
I was hurt, well, I am hurt. I called L (my unfortunately married ex), and asked her to come over. She understands me more than any other woman and she’s one of three women that I could have actually seen myself with for the rest of my life. She made me remember that BB wasn’t…Jabs, herself, or even Bubbles. She was more like Therapist. There was no future, after all, she has a child. Furthermore, she said that the woman did give me an opportunity to “be with” her a few weeks ago and I ignored it. That wouldn’t have mattered though. Suppose I would have said yes and Bumble Bee became my woman…she still would have been riding on that niggas dick yesterday.
After talking to L, I felt much better. I proceeded to make a westside run which included The Teacher (the finest woman I was with in 2010…so far…who now has WEAVE in her hair) and Verizon (my newest…associate, who may not be around for much longer because she’s requesting that I eat her box). Those two stops didn’t really ease the pain. I ended up going to see Meka, just because her ass was just about ass fat as BB’s…she made me feel better, lol.
I talked to Poitree about it and of course she was happy. She never liked Bumble Bee anyway, for whatever dumb reasons, but in her words, “something is off about that girl.” I don’t believe that, I just believe she played me. I can’t speak of BB with too many ill words as the woman has helped me out numerous times. I’ll miss her grilled salmon and shrimp…cuffing her ass while standing outside of my car….etc… but the top 3 things that are fucked up because of this early departure are:
3. We never fucked on the People Mover.
2. We never fucked in the tent at the sporting good store.
1. WE NEVER HAD THE THREESOME.
I’m hurt over the threesome. No, seriously, I am HURT over that. That is quite possibly the best threesome that never was. Do you know how many bisexual women I know? A LOT. They don’t compare. I would have to go back in the archives to find a chick willing to have a threesome that was as sexy and freaky as she was…we’re talking maybe one or two. I’m going to have to go to Georgia to replace that. Damn it Bumble Bee!!!!
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8/19/2010
Lmao @the 3some part xD
Sorry bout ur “loss”, UH.
Well, bout time u started looking for replacements!
August 19th, 2010 at 10:58 am
school is about to star…RE-UP CITY. I did get 6 numbers yesterday, but like I told L, nobody that I’ve been meeting really shines to me.
August 20th, 2010 at 9:43 am
LOL, that’s the spirit
Well, u gotta go thru a bunch of “ok” ones to find the really good one… So just keep l ooking, if only it was that easy! Smh
August 20th, 2010 at 11:19 am
preach sister, lol. I’m not even saying I deserve the “best” one for me…I would just like some young ladies who keep it 100 at all times.
August 21st, 2010 at 12:03 pm
Haha, well, the “best” to u, might not be the “best” to another dude, it’s all subjective. Whatever rocks ur boat
I know what u talking bout tho, that’s a rare characterisitc in our days! I wish i could find men that would be completely honest with me too! Haha
8/19/2010
DING DONG! THE *insert any useful word here* IS DEAD.
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I really wish you’d listen to me sometimes. I unselfishly have your best interest at heart. Always. I won’t defile BB’s character. I don’t know her like that. And I won’t pretend I don’t understand why she did it. But, I will say it was interesting that she wasn’t honest with you about it, as she pretended to be honest about everything else. That being what it is, I will question your refusal to listen to me and stop using the word main. Though it is a loose title, it does come with an expectation from those around. If there was ever any reason for you to stop using it, this would be that reason.
August 19th, 2010 at 10:57 am
the woman was my main because I spent the most time with her. She didn’t even care about that “title”
August 19th, 2010 at 11:48 am
*blank stare* I’m done with it. On to the next.
August 19th, 2010 at 7:22 pm
If you cant defile her character bc you dont know her like that, how could you formulate any ideas about her to say that something was wrong with her? Pretending to be honest? Now how in the world would you know when she lies? If you dont know her like that, why are you so glad she is gone/”dead”?
8/19/2010
Just be patient and put her outta your head dude… do whatever it takes to get over her (I know us fellas internalize the breaks). Once you get past it and she’s a fun memory she’ll probably be trying to get back in with you after the herb she’s f-cking fails at being a man… most do. At that point she just needs to stay int he zone of plaything without serious intentions. The booty and the sexy only goes so far man, don’t sacrifice your soul for it. Thanks for sharing.
8/19/2010
Once again, undresser, I must say you are a truly interesting person. On the surface it would appear that these women were merely chess pieces; used for amusement on occasion. But this entry indicates emotion…pain even. I guess the real problem is using emotion to furnish your house of detachment. You never anticipate getting as close to some of these women as you have and when they play the game as well as you do… It hurts. Hopefully you can reconcile physical desires with your emotional needs.
August 19th, 2010 at 10:56 am
my hurt is …VERY temporary.
8/19/2010
AND WHY THE HECK ARE ALL MY POSTS MODERATING? hmpf.
August 19th, 2010 at 10:56 am
LOL. Thank you my love
8/19/2010
seems perfect to me. A hoe for a hoe. hahaha.
August 19th, 2010 at 11:38 am
you are a sad, sad, woman.
August 19th, 2010 at 5:39 pm
haha! why you call her sad?
August 19th, 2010 at 6:54 pm
Does the Corporation of Full Time Haters got you on pay roll? Seriously, its time to let go.
August 19th, 2010 at 10:04 pm
smh..this is my exit..smh..
8/19/2010
Yo man, on some real shit i know how u felt about girl. u know u write so much fuck-a-bitch shit that people dont know what to think about u. but i know how u felt her on some future shit even if ya frontin ass doesnt want to admit it. u might have fucked this one up pimp, u should have cuffed her. nigga she was good 4 u. i never even met her but dame told me she was COLD and she was getting money. if u want my real advice…this might be one u gotta go back for. shit how many u gone let go for this random shit. these hoes aint shit, we all fuck em, quality over quantity. you been blessed with some good women…shit since we was in highschool you had shuandre…even though she was ugly, LMAO. u lost Lona and chunkey monkey and bubbles. fuck the image man, you need to go talk to this woman. really talk to her.
August 19th, 2010 at 11:53 am
I don’t know Mike, the woman you put above almost everybody…she let’s a dude slide? Come on now. Supposed Crystal would have let another dude slide in her while you had her at your top spot? I miss her though, already…
August 19th, 2010 at 1:20 pm
Nah homie, don’t but Crystal in this. U wanna know…remember how you first met ol’ girl…yea. Crystal never pulled shit like that. Crystal is more like Bubbles…reserved and shit. U aint never heard of Bubbles doing anything. nobody knows who she is…well except us. EVERYBODY knows who ol’ girl is, shes 5x as “famous” as you are. and ol’ boy talking about she only got head…u tripped on her about getting head? thats petty shit my dude. u know it. who u gonna replace her with, Plymouth? That girl been BOXED in. fuck everybody else nigga, go see that woman and talk to her. u my nigga and all, but u fucking 2-3 girls everyday…she got some head (so that other person says)…nigga SHE GOT YOUR WHIP OUT OF THE IMPOUND. Come on son.
August 19th, 2010 at 1:25 pm
@Mike…I never tried to front like she didnt’ have my back. Where you get Plymouth from? I never even took that chick anywhere. Whatever I told her, I stuck to. I loved her. Matter of fact, I told her that I loved her two text messages before she told me she was with some other dude. How am I supposed to feel about that? Then she tried to flip it on me like I came at her crazy. Now Bubbles is calling/texting…mad about BB. Fantasia just sitting in my car like wow…”you got 99 problems…and bitches are ALL OF THEM”
8/19/2010
I’ve been over her house for an hour and I can’t get her to read your FB stat or your blog. I want her to respond to you so bad! I swear she should, but she’s too hurt to even talk about you. To clear up some things: y’all broke up, the guy only eat her, and it wasn’t male intuition because you know exactly why she hasn’t touched you in 2 weeks. You’re lucky she won’t let me say what I want to say. I will only say that I’m happy y’all finally broke up because I didn’t see why she fell in love with you in the first place.
August 19th, 2010 at 1:13 pm
Am I supposed to be scared? Cause somebody ran and was like “oh, *****, he’s talking about you on facebook”. She wasn’t thinking about me.
We broke up? In her words, “how can you break up with someone you’re not in a relationship with?” It wasn’t male intuition that I felt like she was fucking somebody else? You must be the same fool that planted it in her head that I somehow said she fucked Berg or something. She doesn’t need to respond through a blog or anything else, she already told me she was done.
August 19th, 2010 at 2:31 pm
@”Fell in love” funny.. She knew what it was before this happened. How can you be in a relationship and not be in a relationship…
August 19th, 2010 at 2:36 pm
Scratch that I said y’all broke up. You wasn’t ready to commit to her, so she’s right. She couldn’t dump you without a relationship first. She may have misunderstood the message I wrote to her. I only told her that you made a stat about her and I asked her if she slept with Berg and she asked me why I’d say that and I said you mentioned something about it in your stat. I came over because I could tell she was crying but she didn’t want to talk about you. Yet I bet I won’t clear up the confusion if that’s what’s helping her forget about you
August 19th, 2010 at 2:48 pm
Besides, if you had male intuition, she would still be with you. You messed that up! Thanks!
August 19th, 2010 at 3:16 pm
you’re starting to sound gay.
August 19th, 2010 at 2:51 pm
lol @ your smiley face. I doubt she dropped any tears over me. As her neighbor from next door would say, “I could hear all the ooo’s and ahhhh’s” from the sexual activities going on the other day…she definitely didn’t cry then. I never said she slept with Berg…so you led to her inboxing me that whole situation. Good job “friend.” Ah well, I wish her the best.
August 19th, 2010 at 9:42 pm
smh..we shall talk about this as soon as i feel like talking..i’m not real mad..i know you were just trying to keep me away and do what you felt was best, but..can’t believe you allowed me to cry harder..friends are supposed to lessen pain and be honest..i don’t care if you don’t ever like him, sis..he and i only have to answer to each other..always be real with me, okay..love you!
8/19/2010
All this drama up top?
Reason #987398798378A90839 Sec. b393 that you need to stop sharing the fact that you write this blog with people. The overlap causes all this extra.
August 19th, 2010 at 1:45 pm
Her friend can’t cause drama…but damn she did tell them EVERYTHING. Well…I guess that’s normal considering i tell you everything…that I can remember.
August 19th, 2010 at 9:11 pm
Difference between them and me is that I don’t come on here spreading all your business over the blog. What you share with me is what you share with me. And what you share on the blog is on the blog. I’m not gonna discuss in public what you and I discuss in private. That’s low. And I respect your privacy and mine too much to do that.
August 19th, 2010 at 9:29 pm
good, cause you know I can replace a bestfriend as fast as a jumpoff, lol. Just kiddin…kinda.
8/19/2010
Now aint this some shit.
August 19th, 2010 at 1:45 pm
I was waiting for ur scheduled appearance, lol.
August 19th, 2010 at 2:05 pm
lol. Seriously what a fucking doozey. Its hilarious because I always knew it, as I’m sure she mentioned to you before…Why was all this damn deception necessary??? LMAO. I don’t know how to not feel weird right now. I dont know what to tell you to make you feel better when Im feelin weird as shit too. This may even be a feeling of hurt lol. Well…I still love you guys. But…this is fuckin weird. I need a break from you two.
August 19th, 2010 at 2:14 pm
lol…Kitty…you’re “allegiance” is to her, not me. I understand that.
August 19th, 2010 at 3:01 pm
Allegiance? I’m not on anyone’s side. I bounced on you before this because you were getting on my nerves again. All know is I will never doubt myself ever again despite what you two want to tell me. Do you realize I could have read a blog about her (besides the first one) and been disturbed for life. Shoot, I already avoid a few of the blogs because I know which girls are who and I just dont want to know so damn much about a person. And I dont even talk to those girls! Darn it!
August 19th, 2010 at 3:17 pm
you’re doing too much, lol. But like Poitree said, if someone follows the blog and my facebook page…I guess it isn’t too hard to know a few folks.
August 19th, 2010 at 3:27 pm
yeah bc…I dont try at all. I mean 1+1= 2. I have a reasonable memory. I read one thing, and remember something else I read, and they just tie themselves together. And sometimes its just the smallest thing. And you honestly SUCK at concealing stuff. But as you say “I dont care.” Well it is what it is I guess.
August 19th, 2010 at 4:04 pm
I don’t care. If you care enough to try to piece things together like it’s some secret society, that’s on you. lol.
8/19/2010
oh yea man, i think u fronting on that thing about not going back lol. L messed with ol’ dude…and you still went at her. low key, she’s married and STILL think you’d get at her. Jabs let dude slide and u smashed her after that 2. if that head shit is true, you cant let this chick go over some head man. SHE GOT YOUR CAR OUT THE IMPOUND. can somebody echo that 4 me? lol. she got ur car out, that was towed away while you were downtown with anotha chick…who u dont even talk to anymore. if u dont get her back nigga…word 2 life…i’m wifing her.
August 19th, 2010 at 1:48 pm
you might be right about L…but I’ve known L for six years. Different circumstances. I never wanted to kick with Jabs the same way after she let ol’ dude hit. I’m not worried about you “wifing her” (what does that term even mean), because Crystal would kill you. Ok, you made your point, she helped me get my car out of the impound. You act like I didn’t thank her and thank her and thank her. I would have done the same for her.
August 19th, 2010 at 6:48 pm
Echoing “She got your car out the impound!!!” lol
August 19th, 2010 at 9:14 pm
why does it matter if “she got the car out of impound” if they don’t trust each other? IS that the new qualification for keeping someone your “main” hell I’ve done more than that for a dude… and still walked away. If someone’s unhappy, all the shit you DID doesn’t compare to all the shit you need NOW.
August 19th, 2010 at 9:42 pm
I agree. Quiet as kept, if it was just about women doing things for me, then NOBODY over this summer has done more for me than my classmate (Dope Girl). I’m not talking about being a sugar momma either, I mean she did real favors, from driving God knows how far just to print a paper that was due for me, to getting me that $100 a night hotel room just so I could get away from that crazy chick in southfield.
August 19th, 2010 at 11:36 pm
This kinda of sounds like a “sugar momma” behavior. I don’t know…
8/19/2010
wow an emotional side ov UH . never seen that before . But i feel like both ov you were in the wrong . You can’t smash out other chicks & just because you say she’s your “main” she can’t sexually be w| someone else . but her on the other hand i feel she’s more wrong because she knew what it was when w| you that she got herself into . No matter if it was just head or not it’s not cool that she tells you she doesn’t mess w| anyone else sexually , then when she wants to go steady & ask for a commitment & you say no she turns around & gets her twat licked . that’s being deceitful .
August 19th, 2010 at 2:55 pm
finally, some one KIND OF on my side, lol. But I don’t expect anyone to do anything Tyka…I’m going by what the women tell me. I don’t call anyone a liar until they prove that they can’t be trusted. She told me several things up front…most importantly being that her and “daddy” (which I guess is her dude), could be back with each other at any given time. Her loyalty was with him. Matter of fact, it’s in the blog she wrote for this site. After that though, she said she was ready, if I was ready…then…this. I didn’t even know she let niggas come over her house like that. Guess I was just being blind because I cared for her so much.
8/19/2010
she probably let her REAL dude eat her out because you rarely do it and when you did do it…YOU DIDN’T EVEN DO IT RIGHT!!!
8/19/2010
^^gurl I was thinking the same thing!!!! Good for Bumble Bee. Nobody wants that over sampled thing. It’s probably gonna fall off any day now haha. So Bumble Bee, how was the head gurl? Did he make you cum on his tongue? Didnt she say she had a blog? I wonder if she talked about it.
8/19/2010
hmm sorry to hear that this situation made you feel a little down. Honestly though, if she was telling the truth about that morning being the only time she had sex with someone else then you really cant call what she said before a total lie. Maybe a couple days prior it was “urs” but now its “his” as well…. maybe she did love u or was in love with you….. didnt she say she wanted to be with you. She knew that you werent ready to commit so maybe she felt as though why should she… idk jus my opinion. Even though u liked her or enjoyed her company this too shall past
8/19/2010
get the fuck outta here! how he just eat her out with an unwrapped condom…this blog is retarded..one day he got a main the next day he don’t.. he got feelings for a hoe the next time he doesnt… this my last time coming to this bullshit site!!!
August 19th, 2010 at 7:54 pm
how did you get one day I do, one day I don’t? It’s been pretty consistent for the last 10 years or so. You’ve been saying you hated this site for a long time. That’s cool, why did you ever come back?
August 20th, 2010 at 11:00 pm
cause I like reading crap and comical stuff when I am bored…
I don’t matter anyway…lmfao I would never be UH’s type…
8/19/2010
From the blog entry to the comments I feel like I’m in the Young and the Restless. I have my popcorn and Pepsi wanting on someone to come out of a coma! UH, I hate to say it but it might be time to find one great person and kick it with them. You are getting too old to keep going through this crap. I wish someone would explain to me why being with one person is so… troubling?
August 19th, 2010 at 7:59 pm
being with one person isn’t troubling, I just don’t want to do it. For all of the “e-commotion” this blog seemed to cause, what are the effects in my day to day life? Nothing. Well besides a certain WOMAN who won’t stop reading this blog calling me about what’s on it. Like I had to tell HER, I blog once a week or so, I still have 24 hours in my day like everyone else. So if someone thinks they know me based on 1200 words I put out into the world in a whole week…shame on them. Life can’t be judge by a reality show.
8/19/2010
You know baby, I honestly feel so sorry for you. Im going to tell you the most honest shit ever. You know how honest I like to be. Ok so here goes. I have ex’s, I dont want to be with my ex’s but when my exs say they have a new gf, I dont like it. It makes me feel good when they are just fucking them. When they want to commit to them I feel sick inside. Because I want to be the one they cry to, even when I get a man of my own. I want to be the woman in their lives ALWAYS. So don’t you take advice about a new woman from an old woman. THEY WILL FUCK YOUR SHIT UP. Hate the woman bc they can see that she means more to you than they would like. If she was just a bitch, they wouldnt be so bitter, if she wasnt as fuckin high up they would be like yeah Un, she seems great. THAT IS THE TRUTH. I SWEAR TO GOD. ALL OF US GET LIKE THAT. It honestly takes me effort to tell my ex to get with a bitch I hate. Mainly because I know she is better for him than I am. I feel sorry for you because your closest friends are ex gfs and women that want you all to themselves bc they are addicted to feeling imporatant.
August 19th, 2010 at 8:13 pm
What? lol. You never make sense to me young lady. I don’t have many female friends, because of the criteria I use to determine what a friend is. I don’t have hateful female friends. L has never bad mouthed one girl, besides Lil Ma (but that was her arch-nemesis). Poitree didn’t like 3 women and I truly believe that Bumble Bee was one only because Bubbles is her girl, the other two definitely turned out to be absolutely some of the worst women I’ve ever met. My classmate also doesn’t throw any bad vibes at anyone else, but once again, her allegiance lies more towards Bubbles. It’s almost like, my life is Twighlight, and everybody seems to be Team Bubbles or Team Bumble Bee, lol…nobody else even matters enough for people form significant opinions about them. Who’s the fake one? My little brother!!! He likes whoever invites him to parties and shares their candy with him.
August 19th, 2010 at 8:30 pm
LMFAO @ Your brother. hahahahaha. Lol guys used to try an impress me by buying shit for my brother all the time. But at the end of it he didnt give a shit and was like yonk! he dislikes who hurts me. but you got what i said so how don’t I make sense? I’m not team anyone. When you were with bubbles I was like cool. When ur with BB..you know I love that woman but its not a preference thing. Im like what reason in hell do these women have to hate on her? it pisses me off like some of these comments are just uncalled for. It makes me want to fight everyone bc I hate when ppl pick on ppl you know?LOL@ you being up on Twilight. I haven’t read/watched seen a single book/movie. Apparently I’m missing the world though. I know you caught that last episode of TB. Its about to be some shit next episode!!
August 19th, 2010 at 9:33 pm
kitty…why i feel like…i’m supposed to know who you are…i think i just caught on…guess now you know…i’ll apologize later!
8/19/2010
so many things i could say, but i will try to keep it short..”there’s noone in this room, but me and you”..you know me..and you know us..don’t lie to yourself or let any others try to put fogged up mirrors infront of you to try to get you to see differently that i love you any less because AFTER i thought we were over i let another dude eat me..before any of this happened, didn’t i hit you about if you still cared for me..how distant and dry was your response?..and it had been that way since last Friday..
8/19/2010
i been there for you and i fell inlove with you..and you even say you love me outside of the bed but all the while your stickin’ other chicks..i could have lied to you knowing the truth could terminate us..he only ate me and you really didn’t have any clues..would have been easy to say no and lie to you..though i rather had been honest and I will always be honest..can you say i shouldn’t have terminated you months ago?..how about when you somehow inconsiderately had that song playing in the car that night?..how about 2 weeks ago?
8/19/2010
i don’t care about these other chicks, they’re distant memories or random moments..yes, I said it!..you’d be a fool to think any female outside of me with even 75% of my caliber is going to ever love you like me..not even if they didn’t have a child and gave you all the threesomes you wanted!..not even if Poitree somehow landed in the city, teamed up with L and met you at Jabs house and gave you the best 4-way relationship you’ve ever had..I don’t care if 8 light bright bad bitches stepped into They Say and shut the mofo down!!!..at the end of the hour, they’ll never top me let alone equal me..
August 19th, 2010 at 9:21 pm
ummm, lol. ok.
August 19th, 2010 at 9:31 pm
i’m saying, yet let me know when i’m wrong…i won’t hold my breath though.
8/19/2010
there’s nothing you really had to ask me to do because I just did it..i did things you didn’t even know you wanted done..you definitely know sex isn’t what keeps me..but it’s a perk..since the first day, i’ve “felt” you before i ever “FELT’ you..and during the months you’ve been with me, have i changed?…have i lied?..i’m consistent and i’ve only gotten better with time and when you’re inside of me, you feel at home, do you not?..
8/19/2010
it’s unquestionable that this pussy doesn’t welcome you and let you know that noone else has stepped inside me even while you were off on vacation screwing Jabs and the crew..you step inside your home and your bath water is running..you have me dripping wet before you even touch me..and before I let you start to please me, I concern myself with pleasing you first..so you say I’ve never cried?..then what was the tears running down my face that night when I looked at you for the first time while you were thrusting inside..and said I love you?..
August 20th, 2010 at 2:42 am
if I’m not mistaken, you were crying because the song I played in the car.
August 20th, 2010 at 9:40 am
you and your memory..sad..gonna get you some gingkoba..it happened as i said and you thought it was because of something in my eye and i said it was because of you and that’s when I told you I love you..but yes, i did tear up a bit on the song, but you know why it made it and it wasn’t for any simple reasons..i don’t just stir up tears for nothing.
8/19/2010
what have i asked of you..either to turn down your music once or blast me some Anita Baker? what have you really done for me? the one important thing I’ve asked, you’ve yet to do and that was merely just another chance..not because i feel i did something wrong..but because I know that even though I didn’t consider us together anymore, he just wasn’t you no matter how much I tried to fade thoughts of you out my mind while he tried to please me because essentially what pleases me, is YOU..so I sent him packing before i made a big mistake and soon after, you texted me..
8/19/2010
you wanted to see me and I couldn’t be happier because I know its you that I want in our life even though you try to front with your people like it’s not us that you want in yours…you can say that you can get over us just oh so easy..but stop trying to force yourself because it’s not gonna be easy…as I said before, I will only ask one last time for you to meet with me..no automatums..no rules..but meet with me and if you feel nothing when you touch me and look into my eyes…….i will walk away because atleast I tried to rewind you with sincere eyes of the many times this woman has told you she loves whenever you call, text, touch, or thrust inside of her and you knew i was being honest..
8/19/2010
heck, this is the same woman who two weeks ago got bad news while talkin to you but didn’t choose to walk away..instead I swallowed my pride and said I still love you, accepted the situation, and haven’t thrown it in your face yet..so think about it..you may not owe anyone anything in this world, but you atleast owe me (somebody) 1 thing…and if/when you’re ready…your toothbrush, your personal bed, and this woman will be waiting…wait to long and i’ll assume you don’t care and continue to move on..can’t dwell on a man that acts like he don’t want you.
8/19/2010
thanx to anyone that is on team bumble bee (lol…that was funny)…oh and wait…lmao…did i just say no automatums…times to rest my poor brain…no ultimatums* and no pun to any of the ladies mentioned…i’m saying because he throws them every time there’s a comparative thought about me…good night folks and enjoy the rest of the week!
8/19/2010
oh and excuse my friend…i see she chimmed in…i asked her not to say anything to you because it was none of her business, she doesn’t even know half the things…she just knows undresser is someone i was seeing after she seen a picture and that i’m sad over him now…
OH and for the one who’d like me to speak bad on undresser and all that jazz…just because we not together and i’m sad…DOESN’T MEAN I JUMP SHIP WITH BULLETS BLARING…sorry…i’m just not that bitter or petty…
8/19/2010
I am not biased b/c i am a friend of Poitree or anything lol but I read the blog from Bumble Bee and clearly… something was off. Her words went in in two different directions so it’s not a surprise that this is where things are now. I am sorry you are hurting. Things get funny when your trying to find that right balance. I hope you find a suitable :main: worthy of the title.
August 19th, 2010 at 9:30 pm
it was bits and pieces grabbed from my blog, that’s the only reason why…smh…something told me to sit and edit that stuff right, but he asked about it, so i grabbed em and sent them.
August 19th, 2010 at 9:37 pm
while I will never try to defend anyone’s writing but my own, I must honestly say, that if BB spoke in real life the way that blog came out, I wouldn’t even take her seriously. Every single “From Her Perspective” blog was well written, because I don’t really deal with women (outside of sex) who can’t speak and write at a decent level. Anybody who has met my grandma knows where I got that from.
August 19th, 2010 at 10:27 pm
Thanks for the clarification. There’s clearly alot more here that doesn’t need to be put on a blog. When people’s hearts get involved, what place do any outsiders have in this private matter?
I’ve been here before.. and putting your life online… can wreck ish up.
8/19/2010
darn gravatar…lol
8/19/2010
Never trust a big butt and smile! New edition told u that a long time ago… lol No Seriously. I don’t feel that either of you are totally right/ wrong. When she asked you to be in a committed relationship and you said no, that was probably the main deciding factor for “being” with someone else. See as a woman she probably felt like she was in competition with all the other broads you deal with. That girl loves you, cooks for and fucks u good. Not to say that she isn’t doing those things because she is a good woman (because she has been portrayed as a great woman), but she wants you to think of how good she is to u every time u meet another woman. It probably really got to her and she gave you the option- take me and me ONLY or peace out. She probably been holding in how she really felt to make it work (I don’t know, just guessing) and went about it the wrong way. She should have done the womanly thing and kept real. She shouldn’t possibly want to force you to be with her when you aren’t ready. That never works. Now you on the other hand… what can I say. Maybe you expect a certain level of respect for the TYPE of relationship that you two have and for her to be the woman she has always been to you. When things start to change a light bulb turns on, call it intuition, but a person’s attitude toward you speaks for itself. I kind of think you should have expected this.(maybe just not like this) Not many people can be that deep in and keep accepting how you do things. I commend you for pulling no punches and letting her know who and what she is to you, thats manly. However, most women would not last long enough to even get to this point.
August 19th, 2010 at 9:39 pm
I agree with you…and I never fault any of my ex’s or old mains for walking away. It’s a logical move given the type of women that I truly like. I could easily be with a woman who really doesn’t care, but there is something wrong with a woman who doesn’t care.
August 21st, 2010 at 1:40 am
I agree a woman who doent care is dumb. What about a woman who Acts like she doesn’t care. Is that worse? (its just a question BB)
August 19th, 2010 at 9:57 pm
i thought i read it before, but..with you saying it now..i guess i’ll correct something slightly..true..i do want him only with me..but he’s never been given an ultimatum..i’ve told him he can continue to enjoy himself..when he was ready, let me know..i wasn’t going anywhere no time soon..i’m never gonna tell a dude to do something he’s not ready for..after he said he was waiting on me, i asked him and he didn’t respond like he was ready and I didn’t revisit the notion..his answer that day wasn’t the makings of me thinking to move on..only his answer the other day on how much he cared.
August 21st, 2010 at 1:30 am
I never said u gave him an ultinatum. That is Exactly why I did not use that word. There was no threat or consequence given to him at the time of you asking the question (from what I read). I thought u asking at that paticular time could have shifted your dicision to do whatever with the other guy (“that was probably the main deciding factor for “being” with someone else”). Furthermore, we have made the same point in different ways. I didn’t mean that u asking That Question at That Time meant you would not be with him ever, just not on that night. Hell, I think you both are a lot alike. I don’t know u personally, but it seems that u COULD be the female version of the undresser lol… in the few aspects that I know of. I kind of respect u for waiting on him as long as he will wait on you. Will u get tired probably, but I doubt that it will matter. Go for what/who you want. Whatever happens all I can do is wish you the best. I could type so much right now when it comes to the situation but Im not here to be Dr. Phil…lol, and I wanted to stay on track. With that being said I must stray for a second; Don’t get to consumed in this because a lot of us who comment don’t know anything about the two of you together or separately as people. (don’t get me wrong here, it just seems like a lot of TMZ bullshit going on… lol)
8/19/2010
@ Inspirational bumble bee…the way you addressed this wholehearted I respect. *que sera sera* *what will be,will be*
August 20th, 2010 at 10:30 am
thanx!..i appreciate you noticing my sincerity and respecting it.
8/19/2010
Bumble bee…what’s the name of your blog,if you don’t mind
August 20th, 2010 at 10:32 am
i don’t mind at all, but he might since he’s mentioned often on it…if he says it’s cool, then I’ll post it.
August 20th, 2010 at 11:22 am
I don’t care, just give it to her in private. She can e-mail you or something.
August 20th, 2010 at 4:18 pm
in that case…email me at missjl1982@yahoo.com
8/20/2010
To the young lady who emailed me…here is why:
I can get head from a chick and not give two what’s about her. I may never know her name, possibly forget her face in a month or two. I can no emotional connection to her whatsoever. Bumble Bee doesn’t operate that way. Her getting head is like starting the remote sequence for a sexual bomb…you might as well throw a condom on and prepare yourself. She had a dude in her house, in her bed…the best she claimed she never used. So I’m supposed to think that she let some dude in her house, where her and her child rest their heads…and she wasn’t all into him? You can touch her breast and she’ll go crazy, so for anyone to even expect me to believe that some dude was muff diving, and she wasn’t feeding him the same lines that she’s said to me…I’m not buying that book. There was shit leading up to that….rubbing, kissing, etc… all the shit that I don’t need to do when I get it, but for most women, that stuff happens. So I’m supposed to go back to her house where another man was feeling all over her naked body? Come on now.
August 20th, 2010 at 10:17 am
smh..baby..i know you’re mad at me, but i need you to stop grabbing up this fantasy like i did it with you, so i gotta be doing it to others..i’ve explained to you, but here’s the short..undresser knows that i’m a detailed person and if i didn’t give any extra details, then there wasn’t any details..i called a friend who’s a pro masseuse (with his own table, stones, etc) before i started my day (work, hustle, charity basketball game) and it turned unprofessional when he said he always wanted to taste me..YEP, i let him continue but there was no buildup to it..no fantasy..i didn’t even grab his head..when he started i just couldn’t get into it because i kept thinking about how i’d rather have undresser with me and trying to forget about undresser wasn’t gonna work and so i stopped the guy and sent him packing without completely hurting his feelings..
August 20th, 2010 at 10:24 am
and on how my body responds..what he’s describing is how my body is when i’m with him..the tit thing has NEVER been a fetish, but when he grabbed and tonguekissed the titty as the first sexual thing he did before he dropped down and ate the coochie, then it’s something i’d randomly ask him to do when we’re somewhere and we can’t have sex at that moment..
8/20/2010
The green eyed monster in me says “Fuck her.” But the caring side of me…the side that knows how it feels to be cheated on or to make that mistake and truly be regretful says “Forgive but don’t forget.” Don’t let something so minor ruin something so special. The reasoning behind your lifestyle is no commitment…no drama. So what makes her very logical excuse and decision any less than? Even if she did sleep with him…what hurts worse: Her actually fucking someone else or the perceived deceit? You can get over this…like she gets over you doing the same shit. BB clearly has feelings that run deep or she’s one hell of a writer (I doubt it). I hate to see you sad babe so go with what makes you happy. And she does make you happy.
August 20th, 2010 at 11:20 am
KP…you speak as if you don’t make me happy. Like you’re not the world boxing champ, no uH pun intended.
8/20/2010
i can always decline sex..sex doesn’t drive my day..and just because you say these chicks mean nothing do not mean that i shouldn’t wonder why you feel it’s more important to stick your “key” into a “box” that means nothing..i rather you have sex with those that you care for over randoms because atleast the value of the nature would be more understandable to my mind.
8/20/2010
okay i have no idea why my first comment didn’t post..
smh..baby..i know you’re mad at me, but i need you to stop grabbing up this fantasy like i did it with you, so i gotta be doing it to others..i’ve explained to you, but here’s the short..undresser knows that i’m a detailed person and if i didn’t give any extra details, then there wasn’t any details..
8/20/2010
i called a friend who’s a pro masseuse (with his own table, stones, etc) before i started my day (work, hustle, charity basketball game) and it turned unprofessional when he said he always wanted to taste me..
8/20/2010
YEP, i let him continue but there was no buildup to it..no fantasy..i didn’t even grab his head..when he started i just couldn’t get into it because i kept thinking about how i’d rather have undresser with me and trying to forget about undresser wasn’t gonna work and so i stopped the guy and sent him packing without completely hurting his feelings..
August 20th, 2010 at 3:30 pm
I know you know how I feel about this entire situation. I’m not happy. And UH has probably been open about how I feel about you in general. But, all that aside, my advice to you BB, is stop trying to explain yourself on this blog. Call him. Or text him. Hell. Email or FB chat or inbox his behind. But, don’t let your life be entertainment like this. Noone on here needs to know the particulars of your situation. What did/did not happen. I know you probably could care less what I think, but don’t the REAL man behind this blog and your business out there like this. This is going beyond personal. Keep it between the two of you. The more outsiders have to say, the less likely it will be that this will end amicably. My two cent. Keep the change.
8/20/2010
@ bumble bee I really admire your sincerity. It honestly sounds like you and the undresser are made for eachother; both of you appear to have the same amount of affection for one another. In the “from her perspective” post I made the comment that you seemed conflicted; your words were convoluted and it was hard to make head or tail of what your perspective really was. But given the fact that your relationship with the undresser is a gray area in and of itself, I guess that’s understandable. UH is completely correct in saying that 1200 words is not reason enough to render a verdict on a person/ situation. I wish you both the best.
8/20/2010
I think what bumble bee did was healthy. Having strong feelings for someone who cannot commit to you sucks. So to keep from being stuck in that position it’s best to occupy your time with other people. I don’t think her doing anything with another guy proves that her feelings are not there or are not sincere. Obviously she didn’t have the greatest time….which kind of sucks and shows how much she would have rather been with you. I like bumble bee.
8/20/2010
what the hell? so you aremad that she lied about having sex but yet have no proof? seriously. why dont you believe her? I really dont think all this is that serious. Maybe she got tired of waiting on you and tried something or maybe she did exactly what she said she did. The dude might have pulled out a condom thinking hes gonna hit.i agree with the lying but the act that happened (whatever) it was is nog the end of the world. She isnt yours and you arent hers. i think you are upset about what you think went on as well as the lying. But seriously man i think at some point you gotta do more, especially since you say you love her. Working out this disagreement is possible. you just need to get over the hurt and go adress the issue. im sure you feel she is worth it. This turned out to be a mess…
August 20th, 2010 at 8:33 pm
mad? I haven’t been mad at a girl since that chick threw those rocks through my old, old, apartment window, lol. Disappointed and mad are very different.
8/20/2010
@ undressingHER or @ Inspirational Bumble Bee about that email addy should I give mine or what?
Sn: I knw I’m off the topic of this post : )
August 20th, 2010 at 4:19 pm
lol…i was just posting it… missjl1982 at yahoo dot com
8/20/2010
You don’t mean a wedding on the 28th do you? You’re cousin’s a woman? Nah, too much of a coincidence.
Also, I find it ridiculous that girl is on here, talking about something that should be kept off this blog. kismet already said that. Well, at least there are a lot of comments, which goes to show you that a good drama can generate more feedback than your regular escapades.
And girls leaving you or vice-versa is inevitable, as long as you hold your current lifestyle. I would think that, at this point, you’d know that anything can happen. “Shocked”, maybe, but “hurt”? I just don’t understand that, but then again, I’m not much of an emotional person, so maybe I just CAN’T get it =0\.
August 20th, 2010 at 8:32 pm
dang, can a man be temporarily feeling something, gosh?
8/20/2010
uH u trippin all becuz she did exactly what u do darn near everyday and BB if he wants to whine about it… Let him. He get his feelings hurt one day and you’ve been hiding behind yours.. It’s best you two stop pourin your heart out on this blog — especially u BB — and see what happens from there… Good luck to u both. He probably gettin head from someone ri now and not thinkin bout u BB so live your life to the fullest… U might just b lusting
August 20th, 2010 at 8:32 pm
whine about it? I just said what happened. There is a HUGE difference in all of this…I NEVER SAID I’M NOT DOING ANYTHING.
8/21/2010
Wow all I kept thinking about was why would a person lie about something so simple? You love him and what him to be apart of your life but you couldn’t even be honest. I feel like this was more of a trust thing. Both of you have great communication skills, why not speak on it before lying? This is unfair that everybody is in it. When in reality bb & uh are the only two people that can make this work. It was sad b/c she knew what she was getting herself into. Disappointment always gets the best of your emotions especially if you feel played
8/21/2010
to poitree/kismet/etc..i don’t normally do this, but we had a tiff before and i noticed he needed to bring it to an audience so they could read and comment, so if this is the way he wants to express his anger, then this would be the way i’d express my love..and if noone noticed, when i first commented i said that it was noone in this room but he and I..if i acknowledged someone then it was mostly because I was said something to directly..if i cared what anyone thought then i’d never post for fear of anyone knowing how foolish with love that I have for him.
8/21/2010
I was listening to real music by old school r&b artists and something told me to play some of LTD’s greatest hits..It played into my dreams and when I woke up at 3 am in the morning, I reevaluated everything..I reread your post, everyone’s comments, my blindhearted sincerity, and our facebook messages and I said to myself..honestly..”why is he fighting me on this if he still says he loves & misses me?”..I asked you the question already and you gave me your answer..
8/21/2010
At first, I accepted that answer and decided to give you your space and time..now I don’t accept it..I now think you’d rather keep this stature with your fantasy and your fans and not admit that you want to break your rules..you don’t wanna risk whatever childish reputation you feel is important to have then to take me back right away..I don’t care if you ever post that we’re together because this blog never meant anything to me..however you wanna word your excuse is fine, but I’m not waiting any longer..I’m ready to move on happily with you or sad without you..
8/21/2010
And it may have only been 2 days for you to get over what happened, yet I get over it everyday dealing with you..i’m not gonna ask you to stop your blog at all..but here it is..the first one i ever had to do in my lifetime..an ultimatum..either you wanna lose a couple cool points with the blog for being back with me or you wanna keep up with this mannish reputation and lose me for your blog..(things are only as complicated as you make it and later on..you can only blame yourself).
8/21/2010
Enjoy your weekend..this is my exit..I won’t be surprised if you don’t grab my hand and welcome me back in..I’ve lied about nothing and I’ve been real to you..I don’t regret anything and I wish you the best..(OH YEAH…TO POITREE)..I meant it before and even though you don’t like me for whatever reason you’ve thought of to dislike me, I’m happy he got you for a friend and I hope you continue to be there for him because no matter what a guy is like, he needs a friend by his side.
August 22nd, 2010 at 9:02 pm
i definitely see both sides of the situation, life is crazy huh? well I sent you an e-mail cause i’d def love to read your blog sometime BumbleBee
8/21/2010
Am I the only one wondering, why all this info is being written on the internet? What happened to a PERSONAL email or text? Just askin……
August 21st, 2010 at 4:13 pm
I know…this is way too much….
8/21/2010
@Bumblebee…I am team Bubbles but I don’t dislike you. I don’t even know you or Bubbles personally…however, I can tell you are sincere with your heart..but, let it go sis. Move on with your life….Uh is not ready and no amount of your pleading on this blog is going to make it so…..in fact, if you just chill out…he may come around…but either way it goes you are going to be okay..so, just look it at as a learning experience and move on.
@Uh…what did you do to this girl? Lawd have mercy…..
8/21/2010
I have not been on here for a MINUTE. I have been so busy with my new job. ANywho, I want to say hello to Poitree & Uh. I am sure you guys missed my comments
Here is my two scent. BB- please stop posting your personal thoughts on this blog. I believe I know why you did what you did- you cared and loved this man, he is not in a place to commit nor did he say he would commit to you. You were prob in your feelings, do not want to keep on pouring your heart into him and had a fling with another person-which did nothing for you. But here is the thing. You need to understand that you clearly were not happy with the way things were- you want the commitment. So WHY would you want him to take you back for you to get your feelings hurt again? I think Poitree said before when he and Bubbles broke it off that they should get back together and I say why? The same thing I am saying to you…YOU want more so stop settling and acting like the homey, lover, friend relationship is what you want. Now you miss him and feel bad. You should really take this as an “everything happens for a reason” and if he does not want to COMMIT then KEEP IT MOVING. His hurt may be different from your hurt – remember he said his hurt was temporary- while you are professing your love he is thinking of the next girl to add to his list. Be careful like the saying goes- be careful what you asked for. Good luck either way!
8/23/2010
Yall are trippin’. This discussion has gone on longer than I was even hurt. I guess BB fed into this whole thing, because I would have ignored most of you a along time ago.
Bumble Bee is NOT the female version of me…at all. I met the female version of me today…and believe me, when you hear how we interact with other women…you’ll know why she’ll be the newest blogger.
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