Pregnant And Thirsty – This Is Not The Time To Look For A Man
It seems to me like there are some women who care less about the gift of carrying a child than the dead beat niggas that they let shoot their sperm inside of them. Pregnancy should be a special time, hopefully shared between the mom and dad to be, but if the father isn’t in the picture, then does that give the mother a license to start her life search for her soul mate (aka the next nigga to get her pregnant?)
“Yous a hoe, when you try to find a baby sitter/ so you can go out and have a baby by another nigga//” – Lloyd Banks
I was under the impression that being pregnant was a very stressful experience. Why would any woman want to place further strain on herself and her child, by introducing a new man into her life? Shouldn’t this be the time that she reflects on why she let “lil’ Darrell” go inside of raw in the first place? How is it that there are females running around here with profile pages on the internet saying the things they are looking for in a man, followed by “I AM 6 MONTHS PREGNANT. IF U DONT LIKE IT, FUK U.” On behalf of your future child, shut the fuck up.
See girl, you don’t say what you mean. You don’t want a man with the “qualities” you listed on your page. Maybe you do, but those are laws that are clearly not being enforced. If they were, you wouldn’t be on your second fatherless child. So how about you use this 9 months to work on yourself; spiritually, physically, and financially. It’s one thing if you’re entertaining a dude who had a crush on you before, he may have your best interest in mind. But I assure you, any man who approaches you while you’re pregnant is most likely just looking for some preggo box.
I’m not saying your romantic life should be over because you have a child, I’m speaking to the specific 9 month time period that you are holding your blessing. Not to mention, it’s very fucking disrespectful to your child to have another man’s penis knocking on the door of their temporary house. Your child knows damn well that is not the same dick they came out of!!!
This does not apply to the ladies who are pregnant and are just out going about life and happen to meet a man during their everyday routines (even though I would still greatly question his motives). This is for the girls who are out actively scouting for their next sex partner, and/or sponsor while carrying a child.
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19 Comments
4/30/2010
Posts like this should be mandatory reading for some of the scallywags walking the streets these days! Hoecial Studies 101! Im not a mom so I really cant speak too much on the motherhood and the bond that (I believe) a woman should be creating with her fetus. However, I do know Hoes! The women that you are referring to are just HOES who just happened to get pregnant. Mentally they aren’t ” all there” and sadly, pregnancy wont change that! They are simple minded individuals and most likely a lost cause. I think the best therapy is to just tell them about themselves!! B*tch U a HOE! lol
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4/30/2010
i am a new mother, and trust me when i say, LADIES you need to respect yourself when carrying a child, RESPECT your baby also, dont worry about the next niqqa that just want the preggo cooch , its dudes out here ready to buss in you, knowing they wont make the mistake of getting you pregnant.
When i became pregnant my daughters father cared the least about it, he didnt give a damn and told me i better not call him lookin thirsty, be happy on welfare. with much class i replied, i will NEVER need you for anything, i WORK hard, i live on my own , i drive my OWN car and it aint used either
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4/30/2010
(( continued )) so TRUST ME i wont luuk thirsty like these bitches u run 2, so i left him alone for months did my own thing, NEVER cared about any other guy i cuda been out lying to these men like i wasnt pregnant because ididnt begin to show until i was almst 6months, but i held my respect for myself, because if i wont, NO one else will. & it proves to yu that there are woman out here who can be ladylike, bt then agen there are woman out here who try to give ALL woman a bad name. JUST had to comment <3
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4/30/2010
LOL…Tyra had an episode where this Pregasaurus was talking about how she had no money and her baby’s father wasnt around SO she had to go and live in a brothel…The fact that she was a hit at this place concerns me, the fact that she was pretending like she was a victim sickened me. Are you trying to tell me there was no other f%^$ing way than to be a pregnant prostitute??? She even admitted that she like it, but only sometimes * rolls eyes* Give me a break B*tch! She was getting paid and men were showing up with baby gifts. She could have left long ago. But no.What did she do? Go on Tyra.
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4/30/2010
IM STILL MAD !!! Then they start looking at this man like he’s sick or something for paying to sleep with her. Shes obviously in the market because there are buyers. They should be happy because his a%$ was feeding her pregnant and dumb a$%self because she doesnt have half a brain to think of alternative routes to take of herself!…Now that being said, maybe its the hormones? I heard pregnant women get mad horny and apparently dont think that straight in their last trimester. I hope thats the case anyway…
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4/30/2010
I agree. That’s why I don’t plan on having kids until I do what I want to in life if I have any.
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4/30/2010
Ideally you should be dealing with the childs father exclusively if you are pregnant by him…..but if you are not….make a vow of celibacy for the nine months. will it kill you? I agree wholeheartedly with your post…and fellas if you are having sex with this pregnant woman..you are triflin! There is too much pu**y out here to deal with a visibly pregnant girl….SMH
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April 30th, 2010 at 6:52 pm
well I gotta keep it 100, I’ve had sex with 2 pregnant women in my life. It was quite possibly the worst sex I’ve ever had. My mind was just like…this girl is actually preggo. I don’t even think I came.
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May 1st, 2010 at 8:37 am
Dayum Uh..well, you are not the first do that, and you wont be the last.
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4/30/2010
“Your child knows damn well that is not the same d**k they came out of!!!” <— HAHA! True!
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5/1/2010
“Hocial studies”??!! LMAO!! That’s pretty nasty to have a dude run in you while ur pregnant (and the word PREGGO is sooo not cool. Isn’t that a spaghetti sauce) anyway…a woman should have more respect than to sleep around with any guy other than the father.
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5/2/2010
I agree 100%. I left my child’s father while I was pregnant, and the last thing I wanted was ANOTHER man. Its human nature to get lonely, and at times I did (only briefly), but my main focus was my child. I had men try and get at me, I think some of them didn’t even notice I was pregnant.. I was a fly prego #popscollar. Lol.. Even one of my exes wanted to work things out with me while I was pregnant but I couldn’t get with the idea of being intimate with someone while pregnant by someone else. That’s just trashy.
Your body isn’t yours for those 9 months. Respect the baby.
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May 3rd, 2010 at 9:47 am
agree with you whole heartdly ; its pitiful, i felt all alone, but all i needed was my daughter not another man to get on ma damn nerves like my babyfather. smh some women these dayss
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5/3/2010
Send some of these desperate women my way. I could really use one right now (>.>)…
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5/3/2010
Hm. This is the truth and all, but I do have to say I met my man when I was 3 months pregnant, it wasn’t intentional, it really was a walk in K-mart..lol..and I ended up seeing him after that. He was there from that day on forward to the birth of my child (now calling him daddy) and I’m happy to report we are going on 4 years as a family of 4…Me,him,my child that I was pregnant with when I met him, and now our child.
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May 4th, 2010 at 9:16 am
were you visibly pregnant at 3 months?
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May 5th, 2010 at 4:21 pm
Mmm..to me I was, he just said he thought I was super thick lol, but he knew within the next couple of days that I was pregnant, and I told him straight up that I come as a package and if he can’t deal with it than get lost, and it was all gravy after that.
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5/5/2010
Just because a woman is pregnant does not mean that she miraculously becomes less of a whore. Far too many girls have unwanted pregnancies by unwanted men (or are unwanted themselves) so trolling for the next partner is what their priority is. It’s sad and probably not “right” but as repulsive as it may be it’s their choice. IMO what’s worse than trying to find someone while pregnant is getting pregnant by someone you don’t want to spend the rest of your life connected to.
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6/12/2010
I know I’m late replying on this but this is definitely true. You know what? Even though deep down I know you have morals its amusing when they manifest themselves.
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