Always stay optimistic on first dates…

Well first I wouldn’t really even call it a date, more like we saw each other at school a few times. She graduated, and decided to hit me up and chill when she was back in town. We never got around to it until not too long ago.

This was about two months ago, me and grad are trying to kick it, but something always comes up. Its either something on her side, or something on mine. We finally agree to meet at a lounge in Ferndale. It was so hard to get up with this girl; I was going to say yes to wherever she wanted to meet at. So she tells me the name of this lounge, I’m like yeah yeah I know where it’s at. I whip out the blackberry and Google the name. I got the address, estimated time of arrival, full tank of gas, and some Boosie Bad Azz in the deck, so I’m feeling great right now. I get to this place; parking was ridiculous because it was so many people at different clubs ands restaurants in the area.

I finally make it to the door, bouncer checks my id, I just instantly start looking for grad. The more I walk in here I realize how nice it is, and very modern it is. Like this is a dope place to chill at. So I see grad all the way in the back of the lounge, near the exit. I hug her, she gives me a glass of wine, and we just sit down and chill. She introduces me to her friends, I shake all there hands, and everyone was very polite. So I’m just looking at grad like damn she is looking so good right now. She drinks like a fish, but she was sexy doing it. She starts to talk in my ear and this is when I started to forget what she was saying. I started to listen to the music this place was playing. It was really good music, like rap mixed with dance. It was like good rap though, like real artist. It was different, especially in the Detroit area. Then I realized it wasn’t many girls in here, then I saw one, but she worked there. I saw another, but she looked like a guy so she didn’t count. I was the only guy with a girl in the whole place.

Then it hit me, I was in a gay lounge. I didn’t want to over react though, so I just said jokingly, sure are a lot of guys in here. She got real defensive and was like “SO, is that a PROBLEM?” I just said no, it’s alright. I mean, yeah I’m mature, and I feel like she gave me the benefit of the doubt, but she really could have given me a heads up on that. It wasn’t like a bunch of flaming homos either, they where all cool and guy acting. So it wasn’t completely terrible once I realized what was going on.

We just chill a little longer, her friends leave, were just sipping wine talking. I almost forgot where I was a few times, it was good chemistry. We finally leave, grab something to eat. I go back to her place, beat, and never heard from her again.

I find out through Facebook of course, she hooked up with some guy a week later, so I guess I was just the guy in between. Its pretty lame, but you know that’s what happens. You can’t be on the rise all the time; somebody is bound to get one over on you. Just have to play the game and move on. I pretty much came to the conclusion that relationships are for people with kids. I just want relations, no relationships, maybe one day when I grow up, but right now its too much fun.

Oh yeah, It was my birthday a few days ago, she sends me a message on facebook saying “happy birthday.”

Child please!

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Just an above average man looking for a soul mate. I'm easy to love, but hard to please. Money fuels me, but love gives me direction. I'm from Detroit, Michigan, any other questions hit the email. hatetoloveya@gmail.com

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