The Ex Files: TheMrs Pt. 2

“Fuck You”, is what I text her. I’m jumping out of character to even say that to a woman, but shortie is really playing both sides. Her man told her don’t see me, don’t talk to me, don’t have contact with me. I told her last time, I’m done. Very done. Yet she still hit me up and asked if we could makeup. Like an idiot, I said sure.

I must say that shortie is a good friend. If there is a girl that is worth having as a friend, besides my bestfriend, it’s definitely her. She’s helpful and resourceful, but I’m not about to be just casually hanging around a girl who’s all over some other nigga. Be serious.

According to her, she’s living a sex-free life now and waiting until marriage. That’s fine and dandy, but I’m not going to just forget 4 years of wet pussy because she’s turning her life around. She knows this, yet she still hits me up from time to time.

We met up again after I finished working at a party and she was looking quite sexy. I was trying to feel her up and all that, but she wasn’t having it. Quite frankly, I was getting annoyed. What the fuck is the purpose of this girl being in my life? Why is that when I tell her I’m straight on her, she still comes back, knowing that she doesn’t want to give me any pussy?

A few days later she hit me up. We argued back and forth and pretty much summed it up with “I will never EVER have sex with you again.” Well shit, stop talking to me then. I haven’t fucked the girl in like a year, there’s no need in us having any further contact.

We’ve said “fuck you” to eachother 1,000 times, but this time, I had to go in on her. I told her if she didn’t leave me alone, I’d leak her videos. She took it as blackmail, thinking I was saying if she didn’t fuck me, I’d expose her on the internet. That wasn’t it at all. As a deterrent to ever speaking to me again, I told her, if she ever contacted me again, for any reason slight of somebody dying in her fam, I’ll leak some shit so crazy on the net she won’t be able to show her face in the United States again.

Was that wrong of me? Maybe. I’m just tried of that dumb-wishy-washy shit. If we ain’t fucking, we ain’t nothing. That’s lame, childish, all that……yea I know. And I could care less. It’s already not enough time in the day for my main and the damn A-Team, so it’s damn sure not enough time for girls who ain’t fucking and/or sucking. No matter how much of a bonus to my life they are otherwise. I can’t understand why she keeps wanting to be in touch with me though, especially if she knows I wannna fuck and she doesn’t. What’s the purpose?

Was I wrong for giving her that ultimatum? Do you see it as blackmail?

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Author: The Undresser

Black, Single, and Not Looking. Enjoys grilled salmon, cold glasses of water, and grocery shopping at Meijer. Likes women with nice ass to waist ratios, Reese Cups, and watching Real Time with Bill Maher. Dislikes cigarettes, littering, and disobedient children.

4 Comments

e-bunny

3/26/2010

Most women dont know it, but when you have enough sex with one person even tho you may not wanna like them this stupid chemical in our brain called Oxytocin induces the need to bond with our sexual partner.

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e-bunny Reply:
March 26th, 2010 at 8:22 am

“In a study that measured oxytocin serum levels in women before and after sexual stimulation oxytocin serves an important role in sexual arousal, reports show increases of oxytocin during sexual arousal states that it could be in response to nipple/areola, genital, and/or genital tract stimulation as confirmed in other mammals”
“Oxytocin evokes feelings of contentment, reductions in anxiety, and feelings of calmness and security around a mate”
One study confirmed that there was a positive correlation between oxytocin plasma levels and an anxiety scale measuring the adult romantic attachment.

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The Undresser Reply:
March 26th, 2010 at 10:18 am

I only think that’s true when you have sex with someone without a condom over and over.

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e-bunny Reply:
March 26th, 2010 at 7:50 pm

what in the world does a condom have to do with it? if it is only 99.9 % effective in preventing pregnancy, why would it stop someone from forming an attachment to their sexual partner…i know married couples who have sex with condoms do they not have romantic attachment?…

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