The A-Team

Since I’ve been doing this blog, I’ve gotten alot of questions regarding the “A-Team.” Who they are, how many of them are there, how does one get on the A-Team, etc…. I took a few minutes and really thought about some of the common characteristics that all of the “good women” I have had since I’ve been 21. So to all you nosey women, you’re curiosity will be solved.

The A-Team is a fairly new concept for me. It started about 2 or 3 years ago and basically, it just consists of the women I know that I like on more than just a sexual level. They are the women I’d go out in public with, maybe let meet my grandma, perhaps buy a Arizona Ice Tea for, etc… lol. Of course, I’m attracted to them, but that’s not what gets them there. It’s mostly just great chemisty.I guess it would go:

1. Main – Bubbles

2. Ex’s – TheMrs, Super Booty, Angel, etc…

3. A-Team – The Teacher, Jabs, Therapist, Canton, etc…

4. Close Female Associates/Friends – Jersey, Smiles, etc…

5. Everybody else

There is NO consistency with any women in my life, except my main (they usually last years), including the A-Team. Just two months ago, I had four girls on the A-Team. They leave for all sorts of reasons, mostly being that I won’t comitt to just them and they get tired of sharing me.

There can and will not be any more ex’s. Why? Because I don’t believe in “boyfriend/girlfriend” anymore, so all those girls were from years ago. An ex is a woman that I claimed to be in a committed relationship with at one point, and I cheated continuously, and lied about what I was doing. I haven’t claimed to be committed to anyone in 2 years or so, maybe longer than that.

Every woman I’ve dealt with is different, but there are a few common traits that link the A-Team, atleast for the last few years. These things don’t make anyone better than someone else, they are just things that I have noticed.

* Real Hair.
* Love Spell.
* God Loving. Church Going. Now wait, because I know you “Christians” are gonna be like EXCUSE ME???!!!! I’m not saying these women were without sin, I’m just saying, they love them some Jesus. That’s the reason some of them left me alone.
* Well spoken, well written, well mannered.
* Minimum, if any drinking. No smoking.

* ALL HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH THEIR FATHERS. Well except, The Teacher, and she’s …. hmmm, about to fall off (she went and got a stupid tattoo the other day).

* Beautiful mothers. I mean freakin’ GORGEOUS MOTHERS. Actually, I want their mothers!!!! Come to think of it, all of my ex’s have fine moms too.
* Work and going to school or already achieved atleast a BA.

Could I have been in a relationship with all these women? No. Did they all have the potential to be my main? No. For one, a few of them had kids, and that’s just not my thing. I loved their kids, but to start a ……. whatever you want to call it, with kids being in the picture is just not feasible. I need to be able to do whatever I want with my main, all throughout her house, at any given time, not worried if “lil Mike” is in the living room playing playstation. Some of them just……fuck it…..don’t make enough money. I’m 25, my main girl can’t be broke. Nah forget that, she just needs to have her own….EVERYTHING. House, car, and money.

I’m sure I’ll get some calls from some mad young ladies after that, but hey, don’t act like I never said it to your face, so don’t act mad because you just read it.

Unfortunately, I can’t even remember all the women I’ve messed with in the last 5 years, including all of the A-Team. I remember big booty Tamika from MSU and “long hair” from Westland….they just couldn’t stick around because I wouldn’t let go of my other ladies. And I tell you, Tamika was KILLING EM’ out her. And long hair may have been one of the most naturally beautiful women I ever messed with. But it’s not about them, it’s about me. Then you have some girls who thought they were on the A-Team, just because I fucked them a lot. NAH SHORTIE, CALM DOWN. There’s another girl named Mika, off Joy Rd, who thinks ….. well, whatever she thinks, it’s not true. I fucked her a lot because she was always available. She didn’t work, she didn’t go to school……when I needed her to come over, she came over. Then I took her back home and went to be with whomever I want to be with. REALITY CHECK BABY…if we have never been out, never been to a park (besides sex), never been to the movies, bowling, pool, dancing, SOMETHING….then you were….one of those “other” girls. Might hurt ya feelings, but heck, I might have been just some dick to you as well.

For other men, and this has been proven, those girls were worth being the one and only. “Long Hair” got engaged to a dude who’s been with her for the last few years. A lot of them have moved on to men who atleast SEEM TO BE faithful. Of course, who knows what these dudes are doing, but you know women……..‘out of sight, out of mind’. They’ll be damned if you just tell them straight up.

I don’t know how long the current ladies will even be on deck, as Jabs has already “left” twice and The Teacher is on some real wack stuff. As of lately, no new girls have caught my attention enough for me to even put them in my phone, but who knows, everyday is a new adventure, lol.

Related Posts:

• There Is No Duplicate
• The Last 3 Nights
• From Her Perspective: Canton
• The Jazz Session
• The Ex Files: TheMrs Pt. 2

Author: The Undresser

Black, Single, and Not Looking. Enjoys grilled salmon, cold glasses of water, and grocery shopping at Meijer. Likes women with nice ass to waist ratios, Reese Cups, and watching Real Time with Bill Maher. Dislikes cigarettes, littering, and disobedient children.

One Comment

CocoLeo

8/4/2009

Wow. That was interesting. Your main must be some woman to allow all that, but then again it seems like you run things. I’ve been trying to figure you out, but then I’m like duh this is just a relationship blog. You seem to be a very smart person. You obviously know alot about women and why they get attached to you and why they would want to be with you. The higher you set your standards, the more women are going to try to reach them. Its impossible to me that one girl (where ever she is) wouldn’t be the one to reign you in. The way you say things its makes a girl want to apsire to be on your A-team, because they would feel good enough, but who are you really to require all this from someone? But then again you do have a take it or leave it attitude.

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